MYSTIFICATIONS IN THE DEVASTATED HEAR
Believe
me; it is easier to mend a broken heart, than to piece up a shattered
identity. Everybody warrants someone who facilitates them; looking forward
to tomorrow’s successes. If someone had opposite effects on you, due to
their consistent inconsistencies or their actions doesn’t match up with
your own words, listen it’s time to let go before goings time you out. It would be constantly better off to be alone than to be in a bad
company. True friendship is a promise made from the heart, it is gentle,
and it is unwritten, it ought to be unbreakable, unchangeable and
unshakeable by time. You could dangerously grasp your own self in a
dungeon when forcing or enticing someone to love you. We shouldn't beg
someone to stay with us,when they wanted to leave. Love is about freedom. However,
the end of love is not the end of life. It should be the beginning of
an understanding that love sometimes leaves for a reason, but never does so without a lesson.
What if you are unsure of the scale in your relationship? How do you measure this, mind you, nobody can measure love, there is no instrument to measure, you can measure temperature, measure Pressure but you can't measure love, when we are not sure of the current position of our relationship, should we stay or leave? You might decide to leave what you have which may better than what you are seeking outside your marriage.
Before you leave your marriage or relationship,, I think it would be wise when you compare the pros and cons. For instance, a relationship with a drug user, with a sex offender, unfaithful husband for sure this will end in disaster. But what about a relationship with someone you don't respect, or someone you constantly punished....A friend for Life or a Lesson for life. Quitting a relationship is not always the best decisions, it might hurt you and and it put the lives of your loved ones in jeopardy, how do you determine that your final decision is the right one? How do you balance your pros and Cons? What are the questions you asked yourself before taking the final decision either to leave or Stay.
Before you leave your marriage or relationship,, I think it would be wise when you compare the pros and cons. For instance, a relationship with a drug user, with a sex offender, unfaithful husband for sure this will end in disaster. But what about a relationship with someone you don't respect, or someone you constantly punished....A friend for Life or a Lesson for life. Quitting a relationship is not always the best decisions, it might hurt you and and it put the lives of your loved ones in jeopardy, how do you determine that your final decision is the right one? How do you balance your pros and Cons? What are the questions you asked yourself before taking the final decision either to leave or Stay.
I
am a new blogger here, I write to entertain. So there comes a point
where you have to let go and stop chasing some canker-wormed apple. So I
repeat, letting go is often times easier than holding on. It is better
to be alone without a relationship than that which constantly require
you to sacrifice your happiness, self-respects, kids and mental
wellbeing.
The greatest thing you can do is to follow your heart.
Chances must be taken but mistakes must be avoided, trial and errors must be
examined for inevitable lessons to be learnt.
What
do you find yourself obsessing over?,in the past.
HAVE YOU ASKED YOURSELF THESE QUESTIONS?
** Does your husband or partner exhibit any behavior that makes the relationship too difficult for you to stay in?
** Do you find your partner unwilling and incapable of changing his bad ways?
** Are able to get your needs met in the relationship without too much difficulty?
** Do you Genuinely like love your partner and does your partner seems to genuinely love you?
** D you think you belong together?
** Do you feel a unique sexual attractions to your partner?
** Do you see yourself when you look into your partner's eyes?
** Do you sense a strong compatibility with your partner?
** Do you and your husband each respect each other?
** Does your partner serves as an important resources for you in a way that you care about?
** Does your relationship have the demonstrated capacity for forgiveness?
** Do you and your partner have fun together?
** Do you and your husband have mutual goals and dreams for your future together?
These are the questions to ask yourself...relationship should be able to enhance happiness, mutual co existence, understanding, trustworthiness etc....
Eventually you will overcome the heartaches, you will one day forget the reasons you cried, forget who caused the pains. You will realized that the secret to happiness is not all about retribution, but in letting things unfold naturally and learnt from your experiences. so let go of the past, set yourself liberated from a jingoistic conscience of love if you have kids, care for them the more or if you don’t have, be careful to make the right judgement.
Just open your mind to a new relationship. Someday all the pieces will come together. Un-imaginative good things will transpire in your life, and you will ask: how did you get through all that?
RELATED STORIES THAT WILL SHOCK YOU!
20 WAYS TO CANCEL YOUR DEBTS AND BECOME A SMALL BUSINESS OWNER
50 NEW SECRETS TO KNOW WHY AVOCADO FRUIT IS THE NUMBER 1 FRUIT AGAINST HAIR LOSS.......RESEARCH
10 SECRETS YOUR MOTHER NEVER TOLD YOU. Warning! This will leave you in tears.
A TALKING PARROT SURPRISED A WOMAN
HAVE YOU ASKED YOURSELF THESE QUESTIONS?
** Does your husband or partner exhibit any behavior that makes the relationship too difficult for you to stay in?
** Do you find your partner unwilling and incapable of changing his bad ways?
** Are able to get your needs met in the relationship without too much difficulty?
** Do you Genuinely like love your partner and does your partner seems to genuinely love you?
** D you think you belong together?
** Do you feel a unique sexual attractions to your partner?
** Do you see yourself when you look into your partner's eyes?
** Do you sense a strong compatibility with your partner?
** Do you and your husband each respect each other?
** Does your partner serves as an important resources for you in a way that you care about?
** Does your relationship have the demonstrated capacity for forgiveness?
** Do you and your partner have fun together?
** Do you and your husband have mutual goals and dreams for your future together?
These are the questions to ask yourself...relationship should be able to enhance happiness, mutual co existence, understanding, trustworthiness etc....
Eventually you will overcome the heartaches, you will one day forget the reasons you cried, forget who caused the pains. You will realized that the secret to happiness is not all about retribution, but in letting things unfold naturally and learnt from your experiences. so let go of the past, set yourself liberated from a jingoistic conscience of love if you have kids, care for them the more or if you don’t have, be careful to make the right judgement.
Just open your mind to a new relationship. Someday all the pieces will come together. Un-imaginative good things will transpire in your life, and you will ask: how did you get through all that?
RELATED STORIES THAT WILL SHOCK YOU!
20 WAYS TO CANCEL YOUR DEBTS AND BECOME A SMALL BUSINESS OWNER
50 NEW SECRETS TO KNOW WHY AVOCADO FRUIT IS THE NUMBER 1 FRUIT AGAINST HAIR LOSS.......RESEARCH
10 SECRETS YOUR MOTHER NEVER TOLD YOU. Warning! This will leave you in tears.
A TALKING PARROT SURPRISED A WOMAN
No comments:
Post a Comment