Actually, I wanted to use this page to thank everyone out there
for supporting me, I sincerely appreciate your support. Thank you…You should
know how I felt when a young girl like me found that her stories are being read,
When you check my profiles you will know I am still an amateur in Blogging with
poor language constructions but Hopefully I am picking up. I have never
blogged before, this BlogSpot is my first. I knew how to chat in Whatsapp,
vine, instagram, facebook but I have never opened a blog. Each day I learnt new
things here, spent time to do what I had wanted to do. That’s to bring more
interesting information closer to everyone.
About me, I am Malay. My parents
from Kelantan, but was born in KL.
Sometimes, I felt I should
communicate with the world in Bahasa Melayu as that is my bonafide language, my
primary language, my first language and my mother tongue language which is BM,
then I thought again, if I have to reach the world out there beyond the Pacific
ocean, across the Mediterranean sea, overhead the Atlantic Ocean to South
America From Malaysia, that means I have to use a general Language, a Lingua
Franca!... This is English language. Though I made some exceptions by
installing a PAGE TRANSLATION to my blog. For anyone to use and translate my
stories.
During my first my first time of deciding
to have a blog, a friend of mine asked me how and what do I have to write about.
I just told her My mission is to say everything that will not offend any country,
that will not Offend any Religion. That will not cause any racial Tensions,
that will not incite any form of Hatreds, or segregation and it will not become
an internet deviance.
She told me if I just do this, I
won't go viral, she added that one of the things to be popular is to cause
internet pandemonium, a cyber-hooligan and then everyone will be looking for
you. So one day when we were in the school Library, I showed her some blogs
which were educative, tutorials and those blogs were viral, with lots of
followers. those blogs are peaceful and information dissemination and
orientation.
I told her look I have to
start from somewhere, I will start with my Family, So I started with my
mother's hair loss, after writing that I saved it in the draft, I wrote some funny
jokes, intuitive and shocking stories, I made research online after my school
hours, spending a lot of time on the internet so once I saw that I had compiled
enough stories, I started sharing them one by one. Gradually, There were people
reading my posts, so the next day at school I called my friend and showed this
to her, she was surprised and decided to start writing blogs as well.
She was surprised I could write in
English Language but I told her about my family background...
The truth is that I have no single
connection by blood relationship with an English man but what assisted me is my
mother's good decision.
When I was at the age of 7, in
Primary 1, my dad and my mum had some problems, some matrimonial issues,, you
know men what they are capable of...my dad had two wives, my mum was the second
wife but after 8 years of their marriage, and having two kids myself and my
younger sister who was just 2 years at that time with my mother, my dad
secretly married a third wife and my mother could not take that anymore
compared to his paternal assistance to the kids were so low, she Filed for a divorce
with the Sharia court in KL.
That was a risk my mum took,
because of my father mistakes we became fatherless, he was wicked, and he left
us and went for the new wife.
One thing I want people to realize
here is that a man and a woman came together because of love and when the love
does not work they can decide to cut the relationship without the children
having a say in it. They never care how this could or might affect our
psychological, mental, social, physical, intellectual upbringings….If only
children should be allowed to sue both their parents, and then they will think
twice. But I thank God today my mother had made the better-best decision at the
right time, she was still young looking and beautiful when she requested for a
divorce,.
After so many months, my mother
found the right man who was not a local, a foreigner an English man, they
married and had kids including us and we are still living together till
today.
He encouraged us to use English
to communicate among ourselves at home, we are only allowed to use Bahasa Melayu with
the younger ones , at school and with my mom who is a Malay..
At the age of 9, I sat for KFC, English
Essay competition, which I came first position in my essay writing. From there
I started developing good vocabulary structures for English Language. During
school days (mon-fri) I don’t use Cellphones phone, unless on Saturdays and Sundays
but will use a laptops to write narrative essays, and descriptive essays
So what I am trying to say
here is that divorce has its bad and good sides, it does not only help me and other
kids out there but some were unfortunate being ruthlessly abused. I don't propagate divorce because, if it does work for others..Don't expect it to work for you, it
might not work for you. So study your man well, please, I will advise anyone
out there don't rush into divorce, unless it is the last solutions to your
marriage and try to see that it does benefit your children too.
***** Still thanking everyone once again, those who have been reading my stories, those that have been tirelessly clicking to follow me , and those who are just a page viewers, please share your appreciations and support by clicking follow and like button.
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your english is just.... malu dengan diri sendiri lol.. you could get band 5 with that language tho
ReplyDeletegoodluck.. and, you just get one more follower..
Aiman Ayie thankyou for commmenting on my blog . haha. why band 5 not 6 ? hahaha. once again thankyou so much .
Deleteterima kasih . tak payah malu lah , practice makes perfect 1 good luck for you too.
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