WHAT IS SWEET ABOUT MARRIED WOMEN THAT ENTICE MEN TO CONTINUE HUNTING FOR THEM

I have been thinking a lot and hope I don't get confused. I have been wondering what kind of charms, enigmas and natural Voodoos could constantly magnetize men (Young men, Old men, Single men, and even a married man) to tempestuously fall in love with married women knowing fully well that they are already married. Ignoring the sanctimonious-facts that, going for and romantically looking around for a married woman, are both religiously and morally sinful and a deviance to peaceful societal laws. So before I delve further, allow me to dog-leg a little with this short story.

        A man went for a hair-cut in a barbing salon, there he saw a pretty young lady sitting   patiently in the shop, suddenly the man turned to the lady and said, “ woman you are so pretty, can we meet later today for a dinner? And then we could take it to the next level?” The lady replied, “I am sorry but I’M MARRIED.“ The man doesn't want to take “No” for an answer, so he replied, “It's OK that you are married but you can't just trust your husband completely as well, he could also have a girlfriend somewhere secretly.But the lady insisted and replied, “It’s none of your business and for your information, I trusted my husband completely”. quickly the man interjected her and asked the young lady  again, “...Is your so-called trusted husband, at home at the moment? She replied, “No he is at work and he is very busy” the man raising his voice and said ...Do you see what I mean? How could you know for sure that he is busy? Your husband could be very busy sleeping with another woman while you are here defending him. “In-fact, a lot of innocent women are been fooled that way” …He continued. “ Ok now, let’s do it this way, just give your husband an excuse that you are going to the hospital to visit a friend of yours. The woman quickly replied, “OK! Tell him yourself, because he’s the one shaving your beards with the silver knife!”, Oh No!!  He exclaimed and looked at the barber with fierce angry face, brandishing a sharp shaving blade waiting for him to say anything, The man was gripped with involuntary shock, fear and spinal surprises as he sprang up immediately from his chair and ran away for dear life, once he got to a safe distance, he stopped to thank his God, that he would have ended up dead that day. He never knew that the woman's husband was the same barber shaving his beards and that woman had come to visit her husband at his place of work.
             . .....Readers, do you think he had learnt his lesson?   “No”“This is another mission impossible for this man or other men out there. The sexual Insatiability of men frolicking with married women has been there since ages and will continue to be there. But legal constitutions have kept it to mediocrity.

         Unconfirmed Statistics today, shows that men loved to be in a romantic relationship with married women rather than  with the single girls. Why is that? I asked.

 Some women who would agree with me,said that they knew  this is not a matter of beauty,but rather the curses, sensual urges  that pushed men to frolic or flirts with married women is not about beauty at all, but the natural in-built of non- satisfactions attacking men. Men will have uncountable reasons to give you while falling for a woman's love or chosen a married woman than a single girl. They are not enchanted to them because of their education.

  There are lots of reasons like I had said, but the ultimate truth is a challenge, men loves to compete amongst men, when they see some married women with their husbands or alone, they could begin to mentally radicalized their thoughts “Wow! this woman should have been for me”, I wish I could see through her clothings, “I want to see what she is got down stairs” “Wow the colour of her flesh is palatable and succulent curves”." I love her back-side, she has a big butts, she is well trimmed...Big butts.. ....millions and millions of thoughts would flashed inside men, seconds per seconds....”Oh what a lucky husband that would command this queen of the orient”.....This woman does not suit him at all" When a man likes a married woman, you can see some weird smiles, weird nodding of heads, weird questions like...Do you want or need anything?

              In the news we have heard a lot of broken marriages, divorces here and there, but have you sat down and calculate how many of those divorces got disgorged by men sleeping with another man’s wife?... What the hell is going on? What do you see in a married woman? why causing a chaos and disunity in her home? and rendering the innocent children to a state of destitution to suffer the latter consequences of their divorce.

     Sometimes ago, I had a chat with a man about this matter to find his stance and explanations on this subject, he said, 

    

      As I quote “The reasoning differs from men to men. Many of us, think that a married woman is a sure thing. In other words, they assumed that a married woman has a maternal kind of love caring and understanding, genuine love of second chance, when a married woman falls in love with you , it's with a difference, .....a sweet difference because she will compare that love with the one one given to her husband, her love is exclusive than the single girls because they have been there and knows what it takes to be romantic, appealing and appetizing. , Other men reasoned that married women are less difficult to catch. Those that caught them said they only need to be romantically tuned to the woman’s favorite channels of love. such as their kids, to show you will protect the her children with all manners of securities....trying a problem solving methods or probably going further to breaking the woman’s self defense approach by introducing an emotional highway to her.(Abang,sibuk kenapa kacau lah! busy body hold your peace!) etc
          In the real sense, majority of men felt they could get more pleasure in their relationships with married women. The temptations are always there in the eyes of men. Men considered it safe to frolic with married women than young unmarried ladies, during the course of eventualities, a married woman  in deep romantic relationship with you, will protect the man in anyways and whatever it takes. So these men felt so secured and safe with this kind of relationship even when it is also unfortunately hazardous.

Married women are sweet to bring out the inner-Tigress inside them than the single unmarried ones, some says what matters most is when they give you the keys that unlock their full grown sexual desires with no string attached to it. It is indeed they don't attached any strings strings to their love as long as you promise not to hurt her kids.

         Describing the feelings men get from this kind of relationship, they said, "What they felt and gain in this type of relationship was like a  mantle and anvil of conquest placed on their hands, It was really great eating the forbidden fruit of sweet and soured tastes.

  

   Some other men go for married women because she belongs to someone else and it will allow him in some level, to feel more dominant over the other man. Men just would want a woman who belongs to someone else because, he believes that it is the idea of the chase and seduction of a woman that gives him the ecstasy of love.

Some men flirt with married women because they are married themselves which will allow them to connect with another woman without worrying about being judged for being married. 

Some men like the idea of going after a woman who seems unachievable. The pursuit of the woman is fun and exciting and when they get the woman the feeling of accomplishment is more than most men can handle. Chasing a woman who is unattainable is often more fun than getting the woman. Some men don't like commitment. When a man wanted a canal body contact or want someone to talk to, and gets full concerns and understanding is to seek a married woman.

     

       A married woman do not have higher demands for material things..... unlike the Single- unmarried ones.

My perspectives were not based on the women but only on the men’s viewpoints.

 So Finally, I think it would be best if men were careful, and pay more attentions to their wives rather than Sleeping with another man’s wife...It is dangerous. If those, who were killed by these actions could come down from hell to narrate how they were punished or suffered before their deaths, then you will know that dating and having a canal relationship with married women is a two edged sword of sweet and bitter blades. it's either you hurt someone, or you get yourself hurt ...Thank you.